@love her...could you rephrase your question a bit better...this person's intials are I ??? And she got involved with ?
I think this person has trouble making up her mind...dependency issues and a man might be controlling a lot of her thoughts and moves in real life. Almost like most things she does are under his influence.
She is actually weak right now unable to handle the situation herself...so she is reaching out to you and it's strange cause she hasn't made up her mind yet about anything...so you are not sure what she wants because she isn't either.
In truth you don't need to get involved ...but I guess if you do not..it change the scales of this situation on you. Wait be considerate and let them make up their mind first.
Hope this helps...let me know if you have further questions..